Infatuation vs love. Know the difference between them.

Infatuation is fleeting desire, one set of glands calling to another. It is marked a feeling of insecurity. You are exited but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, bits and pieces of the relationship don't want to examine. It might spoil the dream.

Love is a friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time. It is real. You are warmed by his/her presence, even when he/she is away. Near or far, you know they are yours, and you can't wait.



1. Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him/her.

"Love says, Be patient. Plan your future with confidence."

2. Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship that makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

3. Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is elevating as it lifts you up. It makes you better than you were before.

4. Infatuation lacks confidence. When he is away, you wonder whether he/she is being faithful.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. He/she feels your trust, and makes him/her even more trustworthy.